If I were to marry a guy.. I want him to be something like this. Sorry if I'm too picky or anything. DON'T JUDGE!
1. He has to love me.
Like obviously. But you know, it'll be cool if our parents set us up and we get married just like that. And like what Ustaz Jais said. When, we don't know the person, the first night will be just about the two of us. We talk and know each other better. At least it won't be awkward. And also, if we marry someone we just met, Ustaz said that the nikmah of fighting and the pujuk is fun. If the coupled before marrying, then we have actually been through the fighting and pujuk phase. And if we get sick of the partner because you guys fight so much. What will happen then? Go ahead and ponder!
2. He has to be the lover of Allah.
This is where the Islamic part comes in *claps*. I want my future husband to be close to Allah, but if he's not a Muslim, then I shall teach him about Islam and show him the beauty of Islam. I shall tell him everything I know and make him love Islam. But if he is already a muslim, I want him to be better than me. I want him to tell me stories of our prophets. I want him to be the Imam for all of my prayers, I want to pray Sunnah prayes with him and I want to hear him recite the Quran every single day.
3. He has to be calm and full of patience.
I have nothing much to talk about this because if he is close to Him, then this characters come naturally. By patience here, I mean that he must not be a hot-tempered person especially when it come to handling my future kids. He must advice them properly and not scream or yell at them. Calm? He has to be calm when we are facing problems. He has to be calm when we have our fights. He should never ever hit me are even scream at me. Cause that will hurt and scare me a lot. When that happens, I'll never look at him the same way. Ever again.
4. He has to be wise.
Haha.. Wise. Wise when it comes to giving advice. Wise when it comes to solving problems. And wise when it comes to cheer me up. I'm a girl. And we have our mood swing. Especially me. I tend to cry/ upset/ emo a lot. It happens mostly because of what I observe from my surrounding. I actually cried when I watch the Save Maryam video because I was worried. That is my kind of mood swings. So, my future husband here, like I said, he has to be wise at giving advices. He has to be wise at telling me it is alright to feel this way. And it is alright to be worry. And he also has to be wise with his words so that he can cheer me up.
Haha.. That is pretty much what is on my head right now. I shall write more when I have more thins to say. Told you I was picky. :)
