Good things are always hard to obtain. Bad things come like raindrops. When I fisrt started to wear my hijab, it was hard. I wear literally the same thing every single day cause that's the only thing I have that covers me properly. I wasn't a big fan of skirts at the time so I have no Jubah and no baju kurung that I can wear out casually. Thus, all I have is 2 long sleeves t-shirts and a few pants.
Well, this time around it isn't about me but about women in general. Women who have been given hidayah to put on a hijab.
Firstly, people should know that it's not easy to suddenly cover yourself perfectly. If the woman used to dress in a very appealing manner, they have very limited long sleeves shirt without having holes anywhere. Thus, if they do wear things that might be slightly inappropriate yet still covering their hair, do respect them and give them another chance.
It's true that women love to shop and it takes months to actually own that huge collection of theirs. A wardrobe change wouldn't be achieved in a month or so. Also, women need to discover themselves. Everyone knows that buying a single piece of clothes take forever for a women, so how long do you think they will need to change their entire wardrobe?
Changes need time. It does not happen within a day nor will it happen within a month. Drastic changes are never good. Some people who goes through drastic changes might find themselves to be in a shocking position that they eventually go back to their bad habit.
Whatever it is, people should not judge another by their appearance cause we do not know their story. They might just have put on their hijab yesterday and being judged the day after. Even the people with hijab yet tight clothings, we shouldn't judge them either. They might not know the proper way of hijab and it is our responsibility to guide these kind of people.
This post is actually a reminder. Especially to myself. I need to tell myself to stop judging people and guide them instead cause that is the best way of doing things.
Monday, January 30, 2017
Wednesday, January 18, 2017
Kisah seorang Shafieza
All my life, I've had few specs. Some are funny, some are fine. But really, I don't go well with specs. Or contacts even.
I started wearing them at the age of 11. Why? This fierce class teacher of mine placed me all the way in the back. It took me all the courage I can get to tell her I'm short-sighted and when I did, she replied "I'm not going to move you. You should get spectacles." So, I got them. I outgrew them fast as children with spectacles increases power rapidly. But that's another story. So this is the real story.
As I said, I don't go well with specs. I broke them with my bare hands once. Well, I sat on it and it was dented? So I tried to fix it and yeah, miracle happens you know. Needed to get a new one instead cause I broke it and that specs was damn expensive. It was oakley (which the salesman claim to be strong as sht) and I broke the 1K frame with my bare hands. Nice job Shaf.
I have this habit of mine where I take them off randomly and place them randomly. I once hung my specs at a 5 litre bottle and forgot about it. How did I find it? It took the effort of me + 5 others to find it and it took 10 minutes when my room is barely 200 sq feet. Good times, stupid times. Smart Shafieza.
Last memorable one is that I shattered my specs. Everyone said it was a goddamn bullet and it's literally impossible for that to happen. But things happen you see and things happen to me. There goes my money..... How it happened? I wanted to wash my clothes but my specs were really loose so it bugged me. I took it off and hung it at one of the metal hangers. When I was done with one of my clothes, I took a hanger but it was somehow tangled up and the hanger with my specs fell down and magic happened. No shiz man, no shiz.
I started wearing them at the age of 11. Why? This fierce class teacher of mine placed me all the way in the back. It took me all the courage I can get to tell her I'm short-sighted and when I did, she replied "I'm not going to move you. You should get spectacles." So, I got them. I outgrew them fast as children with spectacles increases power rapidly. But that's another story. So this is the real story.
As I said, I don't go well with specs. I broke them with my bare hands once. Well, I sat on it and it was dented? So I tried to fix it and yeah, miracle happens you know. Needed to get a new one instead cause I broke it and that specs was damn expensive. It was oakley (which the salesman claim to be strong as sht) and I broke the 1K frame with my bare hands. Nice job Shaf.
I have this habit of mine where I take them off randomly and place them randomly. I once hung my specs at a 5 litre bottle and forgot about it. How did I find it? It took the effort of me + 5 others to find it and it took 10 minutes when my room is barely 200 sq feet. Good times, stupid times. Smart Shafieza.
Last memorable one is that I shattered my specs. Everyone said it was a goddamn bullet and it's literally impossible for that to happen. But things happen you see and things happen to me. There goes my money..... How it happened? I wanted to wash my clothes but my specs were really loose so it bugged me. I took it off and hung it at one of the metal hangers. When I was done with one of my clothes, I took a hanger but it was somehow tangled up and the hanger with my specs fell down and magic happened. No shiz man, no shiz.
Sunday, January 8, 2017
New Family
I joined this club called twenties for Smileys (TFS) and well, honestly I didn't feel it. I said didn't okay. I mean I didn't feel the togetherness attitude from this club. Not until we started making the banner.
The proposed banner is a HUGE A** banner that is like 2 FREAKING STORY HIGH!! But man, the journey was worth it. I got to know the members and I now feel belonged. I feel like I was rather useless cause I don't know man. I just didn't feel like making a banner. I just chat with people to keep them awake I guess. It was fun. I mean even if I did sit there and do nothing, I got to know people and make new friends. The overall experience is seriously overwhelming. Enough said. Let the pictures do the talking.
The proposed banner is a HUGE A** banner that is like 2 FREAKING STORY HIGH!! But man, the journey was worth it. I got to know the members and I now feel belonged. I feel like I was rather useless cause I don't know man. I just didn't feel like making a banner. I just chat with people to keep them awake I guess. It was fun. I mean even if I did sit there and do nothing, I got to know people and make new friends. The overall experience is seriously overwhelming. Enough said. Let the pictures do the talking.
New Year, New Me?
New year new me? Meh. My new year resolutions are literally 0.
Yes. It is good to have aims and something to look after but in reality, how many of us actually achieve the resolutions? Even if they do achieve it I bet most of it are the one they brought from the year before. I love who I am and I don't really want to change anything. But if there is one thing that I would want to change is my time management.
Honestly saying, I haven't cope yet with my 'break up' and I kill my time by joining activities. And honestly, I always end up tired and well, I also prioritized anime. HAHA. but whatever.
Someone has specially requested to know about my new year. Well, it wen't pretty much like this. Spent the NYE and NY at cyberjaya making banner. But I did get to see fireworks at 12am.
After we called it a day on the banner making, I went to the Putrajaya Light Festival. It was well, boring cause I went there with 4 other girls and no New year's kiss (k I'm kidding). It was awesome. I mean I haven't been to any light festival so it was okay if we leave out the fact that it was too dark to take any pictures. BOO HOO. but yeah, overall it was okay. The best part of it was to celebrate new year itself at the parking lot. The thing about public gathering is the parking. We parked at a field where it is full of mud and little hill. So, what happened was around 11.30 we decided to leave but our car was blocked. So we decided to go up the little hill in front of us but it was muddy so we got stuck. It was a scary experience cause even a 4 wheel drive can't pass through. SCARY!! and the car almost hit us. So, we waited for like 45 mins till we got out. My friends and I were complaining how we spent 1 whole year in the car and stuff like that. The experience wasn't so fun but the memories was priceless. <3
Yes. It is good to have aims and something to look after but in reality, how many of us actually achieve the resolutions? Even if they do achieve it I bet most of it are the one they brought from the year before. I love who I am and I don't really want to change anything. But if there is one thing that I would want to change is my time management.
Honestly saying, I haven't cope yet with my 'break up' and I kill my time by joining activities. And honestly, I always end up tired and well, I also prioritized anime. HAHA. but whatever.
Someone has specially requested to know about my new year. Well, it wen't pretty much like this. Spent the NYE and NY at cyberjaya making banner. But I did get to see fireworks at 12am.
After we called it a day on the banner making, I went to the Putrajaya Light Festival. It was well, boring cause I went there with 4 other girls and no New year's kiss (k I'm kidding). It was awesome. I mean I haven't been to any light festival so it was okay if we leave out the fact that it was too dark to take any pictures. BOO HOO. but yeah, overall it was okay. The best part of it was to celebrate new year itself at the parking lot. The thing about public gathering is the parking. We parked at a field where it is full of mud and little hill. So, what happened was around 11.30 we decided to leave but our car was blocked. So we decided to go up the little hill in front of us but it was muddy so we got stuck. It was a scary experience cause even a 4 wheel drive can't pass through. SCARY!! and the car almost hit us. So, we waited for like 45 mins till we got out. My friends and I were complaining how we spent 1 whole year in the car and stuff like that. The experience wasn't so fun but the memories was priceless. <3
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